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When you walk into an establishment, do you consider what perks
they offer to their customers? If you do, how do you ask for those
benefits? For example, numerous businesses offer military discounts, but
they don't always advertise this boldly on site. Sometimes the
employees will volunteer the discount if you're in uniform, you use your
military ID when you pay with a credit card, or you look like you're in
the military. However, many times the employees are unaware or are
unsure whether the company offers discounts. So it behooves you to
always ask if the business offers a discount.
Asking doesn't just apply to receiving a military discount, it is also prudent that you ask for help, too. If you're like me and have yet to master life, ask someone you respect to be your mentor. Many people are too afraid to ask a superior or even a peer to be their mentor. Just as some are afraid to succeed, many are afraid to appear as if they don't have everything under control.
Recognize your fear, and then consider that successful people are excited to share what they've learned along their journey. Don't be timid. Why not ask that person for some time on their calendar. At worst, they'll say, "No." At best, they'll say, "Yes," and in between, you may have to wait until they're not as busy. Regardless of the outcome to your request, don't self-eliminate yourself by not directly asking for a meeting. If anything, force the other person to decline your request outright. Again, take a chance and ask the person to join you for a cup of coffee or lunch. Just remain mindful that no means no, yet ask your prospect for a referral who could serve as a mentor instead.
Prepare for your meeting now by organizing your record into a presentable binder. Gather your annual performance appraisals, award citations, and any other achievements that paint a picture for your mentor. Give your mentor enough information upon which to make informed decisions on your behalf.
Although I don't believe there are stupid questions, I do think people should not rely solely on others to do their work for them. Since everyone's time is valuable, find out if the answers are already documented. With a little research (e.g., online search), chances are you will find the answer yourself. On the occasion that the answer isn't available through diligent study, similar to setting goals, seek the right person to field your question. Maybe the cashier isn't authorized to provide you a discount, yet maybe the manager will.
Sometimes you may be misunderstood. If you find yourself talking in circles with another, restate your request in different terms. Try to use words the other person will clearly recognize. For instance, if you don't want rice with your burritos, consider asking with, "No arroz, por favor."
Not everyone will make the time to learn some elements of a different language, but regardless of what you aspire for in life, be respectful when you address others, and think in positive terms. Believe that you will get admitted to that college, get that promotion, and so forth. If you've prepared yourself for admission, then submit your application with confidence and accept that you're qualified and ready to receive the good news.
Go ahead and ask!
Asking doesn't just apply to receiving a military discount, it is also prudent that you ask for help, too. If you're like me and have yet to master life, ask someone you respect to be your mentor. Many people are too afraid to ask a superior or even a peer to be their mentor. Just as some are afraid to succeed, many are afraid to appear as if they don't have everything under control.
Recognize your fear, and then consider that successful people are excited to share what they've learned along their journey. Don't be timid. Why not ask that person for some time on their calendar. At worst, they'll say, "No." At best, they'll say, "Yes," and in between, you may have to wait until they're not as busy. Regardless of the outcome to your request, don't self-eliminate yourself by not directly asking for a meeting. If anything, force the other person to decline your request outright. Again, take a chance and ask the person to join you for a cup of coffee or lunch. Just remain mindful that no means no, yet ask your prospect for a referral who could serve as a mentor instead.
Prepare for your meeting now by organizing your record into a presentable binder. Gather your annual performance appraisals, award citations, and any other achievements that paint a picture for your mentor. Give your mentor enough information upon which to make informed decisions on your behalf.
Although I don't believe there are stupid questions, I do think people should not rely solely on others to do their work for them. Since everyone's time is valuable, find out if the answers are already documented. With a little research (e.g., online search), chances are you will find the answer yourself. On the occasion that the answer isn't available through diligent study, similar to setting goals, seek the right person to field your question. Maybe the cashier isn't authorized to provide you a discount, yet maybe the manager will.
Sometimes you may be misunderstood. If you find yourself talking in circles with another, restate your request in different terms. Try to use words the other person will clearly recognize. For instance, if you don't want rice with your burritos, consider asking with, "No arroz, por favor."
Not everyone will make the time to learn some elements of a different language, but regardless of what you aspire for in life, be respectful when you address others, and think in positive terms. Believe that you will get admitted to that college, get that promotion, and so forth. If you've prepared yourself for admission, then submit your application with confidence and accept that you're qualified and ready to receive the good news.
Go ahead and ask!
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